HOT TIP: calling out bigoted behavior isn't "harassment" it's the consequences of said behavior
if someone's being sexist or transphobic or anything else it is 200% okay to bully them into submission because their words carry the weight of untold societal violence
two wrongs don't make a right but pushing back against bigotry isn't wrong
people who get all pissy every time marginalized people push back against bigotry have a very victim blamey vibe
