@broadwaybabyto I'm a man and yeah, I agree with your statement. Sort of hard to judge a person and whether they would be capable of such actions, so I don't blame you for being careful about who you approach. I'll admit, I'm shorter than most men I've met and have thought about the idea of a relationship with a man. But the thing that's stopping me is the fact I wouldn't be able to defend myself if they got angry, especially if they're bigger and therefore stronger than me. Obviously nothing compared to the threat of rape at every opportunity, but something to think about for me at least.

@rooktallon the physical size difference is definitely something I’m always aware of - just because it’s significant and a big part of why we can get hurt more easily.

I’m sorry it’s something you’ve worried about too.