@jrredho that's why I mentioned SUSE, which is another enterprise edition, which is equally as stable as RHEL. They seem to feel it's rock solid enough, just Redhat that don't. 😄
I've used it (albeit not on production) for probably nearly a decade now and I've only had two issues. One was back in the earlier days and I ran a partition out of space. It was recoverable but awkward to free up space. Second was on an old old old HP Gen4 server, with a physical raid card. I think the cache battery has gone on it, and every time it's rebooted the filesystem requires recovery - this isn't a btrfs issue per se. Problem being, the fsck.btrfs utility isn't the right utility to run, even though on other filesystems it would be the first thing most would try. I remember some discussion about how fscking the filesystem can make issues worse, which wasn't great.
Think the perceived instability with btrfs was more around the tooling rather than the actual filesystem.