Roseline Mgbodichinma is mourning her aunt. In her beautiful essay for @thexylom, she writes about grief, the need for witnesses in death, and a Nigerian vegetable soup called egburegbu, the translation of which is “cut” or “kill.”
“[My aunt] loved egburegbu and on the days we cooked it, she would sit cross-legged in the kitchen, patiently waiting for a serving of her favourite soup. This is how I choose to remember her, as someone who loved without caring about the origins of the life around her, or how it will all end.”
https://www.thexylom.com/post/perspective-grief-grows-like-ugu
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